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Quoting Quiverfull: A Wise Woman Manipulates Her Husband?

by Debi Pearl from No Greater Joy – A Wise Woman Builds Her House Editor’s note: Reading Debi’s words I am reminded of a recent conversation where a woman from Debi’s generation told me after I’d...

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Not Quoting Quiverfull: Narcissist Men With Patriarchal Tendencies?

There is a study out of Ohio’s Kent State University by Dr. Scott Keiller showing that narcissistic heterosexual men tend to take out their aggression almost exclusively on heterosexual women. From...

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You Will O-bey, Or You Will Be Exter-minated

by Living Liminal cross posted from her blog Living Liminal Ok, so the truth was bound to come out sooner or later… I have to confess to being a bit of a geek… just a bit… And so inevitably I couldn’t...

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I Have Trust Issues

by Living Liminal cross posted from her blog Living Liminal A few weeks ago, a friend asked me about whether I was thinking about finding another church to attend. I hesitated, talked around the...

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Quoting Quiverfull: Christians Are Called to Hate Others?

by Zsuzsanna Anderson of Are They All Yours? – On Judging, Hating and Name Calling Editor’s note: As horrific as yesterday’s quote from Zsuzsanna was this gets infinitely worse when she says it’s...

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Quoting Quiverfull: Part 1 – Anger in Children is Purely Selfishness?

by Michael Pearl from No Greater Joy – Angry Children Editor’s note: Continuing on from last week’s theme of Michael blaming children for selfishness here’s his take on anger, a topic he seems to know...

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On Being Silenced

by Samantha Fields cross posted from her blog Defeating The Dragons I have a lot of experience with being told to shut up. I’m used to being ignored, dismissed, thrown out. Being an outspoken,...

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Anonymous Stories – What Reproductive Abuse In Quiverfull Looks Like

by Anonymous Editor’s note: The author of this piece didn’t want to share her name, location or identifying details and so all identifying names/places and info has been changed to keep her abusive ex...

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Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Mate”– Is It Right To Shun A Couple For...

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of...

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To The Moms Who Want To Hate On Middle-School Girls

by Samantha Field cross posted from her blog Defeating The Dragons [this post is in response to Kristen Welch’s “To the Middle School Girls at the Pool who Told my Son He was Hot“] Listen, moms, I get...

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Random Thoughts

by Ellen cross posted from her blog When Church Hurts I am a teacher.  Of 6th graders.  Music.  I often say that I teach so that I can rest up from my summer.  I’ve been on summer break for 10 days and...

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Not Quoting Quiverfull: Why Don’t Christians Protest Divorce Like They Do Gay...

by Tim Fall from his blog Tim’s Blog – Just One Train Wreck After Another – Marriage Equality and No Fault Divorce – how do you rank them? Editor’s note: This is actually a good question to ask of...

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20 Worst Things To Say To Someone Suffering

by Suzanne Titkemeyer cross posted from her blog Every Breaking Wave As part of my adminning No Longer Quivering I have to stroll around the blogosphere a couple of times a day to see what’s going on....

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Quoting Quiverfull: Godly Response To Emotional Abuse?

by Rick Thomas from Rick Thomas.net – Emotional Abuse:  Its origins, its cure Editor’s note: Another perfect example of why the evangelical and fundamentalist Christian crowds are so toxic to those...

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“pastor” Tim Henderson’s Lie

by Joe Sands cross posted from his blog Incongruous Circumspection More than a few years ago, my family decided to begin attending a small church in the tucked-away town of Elkton, South Dakota.  The...

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On “Buying Influence”

by Ellen cross posted from her blog When Church Hurts The so-called Republican “debate” – which was in no way a “debate” – was some of the best entertainment I have seen in a while.  I truly enjoyed...

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Jesus As Our Exemplar of Healthy Masculinity

by Shoshon Tama-Sweet cross posted from Christian Patriarchal Watch List For Parents Editor’s  note: This post is written as a Christian response to the Michael Pearls and Biblical Gender Roles guys of...

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“I Am Oswin Oswald. I Fought The Daleks And I Am Human. Remember Me.”

by Nora Woodhouse cross posted from her blog A Heart Like Mine When dealing with FOO (family of origin) that is dysfunctional; any encounter can feel like you have stepped into a strange world in which...

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Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’– Lighthearted Versus Silly

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of...

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Quoting Quiverfull: Unbelieving Women Are Either Sluts or Lesbians?

by Doug Wilson of Blog and Mablog – On Why Christian Women Are Prettier Editor’s note: This is the father of the lady that claimed so many not nice things about ‘Evangelical Feminists’. It’s obvious...

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